Unfriending & Unfollowing

Episode 272 – Unfriending & Unfollowing

Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is walk away. This episode challenges us to reconsider our understanding of biblical relationships and confronts the uncomfortable truth that not every connection is meant to be maintained. Drawing from 1 Timothy 6 and 2 Timothy 2, we're reminded that Scripture actually gives us permission—and sometimes commands us—to separate from people who consistently breed controversy, quarrels, and division. Paul describes these individuals as 'puffed up with conceit' yet 'understanding nothing,' a dangerous combination of arrogance and ignorance. The key spiritual insight here is learning to discern the difference between Christ-like patience and enabling toxic behavior. We're called to be kind, teachable, and gentle in our corrections, but when someone repeatedly demonstrates an unhealthy craving for controversy and refuses godly counsel, continuing to engage becomes a waste of the precious time and energy God has given us for kingdom work. This isn't about being unloving—it's about being wise stewards of our relationships and recognizing that some people attract followers who are 'depraved in mind and deprived of truth.' The challenge for us is to examine both who we're following and whether we ourselves have become quarrelsome. Are we pursuing righteousness, faith, and peace with those who call on the Lord from pure hearts, or are we caught in endless cycles of debate that produce nothing but friction?