We Prayed. Now What?, episode 66
On Prodigal Prayer Day we prayed for all those names on the list of treasured prodigals, as well as our own beloved wanderers. What a privilege!
And what a battle! I am always exhausted at the end of the day. We—and those we pray for—have an enemy who doesn’t like that we are on our knees on their behalf.
So what do we do now that we have prayed?
Resources:
After we pray: https://bit.ly/3xeQH6h
Praying is warfare: https://bit.ly/3zcGGYJ
Join the Prayer for Prodigals community here: https://bit.ly/3uyhSWQ
Sign up for Judy’s monthly newsletter here: https://bit.ly/39TBlYt
Purchase a copy of the When You Love a Prodigal book for you or a loved one here: https://amzn.to/3l1JPmy
Stay connected:
Website: judydouglass.com/podcast
Facebook: facebook.com/JudyDouglass417
Instagram: instagram.com/judydouglass417
Twitter: twitter.com/judydouglass417
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judy-douglass-815aa358/
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/judyddouglass/
YouTube: https://bit.ly/3qzjAqY
00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,440
If you love a prodigal, you can discover,
2
00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,100
help and hope for your wilderness journey
3
00:00:07,100 --> 00:00:10,500
right here at When You Love a Prodigal.
4
00:00:10,500 --> 00:00:14,680
And also help and hope for your own life journey.
5
00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,580
Did you ask for prayer for your loved one
6
00:00:18,580 --> 00:00:20,860
on the Worldwide Prodigal Prayer Day
7
00:00:20,860 --> 00:00:23,200
a few days ago on June 2nd?
8
00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:25,160
Did you pray?
9
00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,200
Were you expecting an answer within a week?
10
00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,000
Of course you were hoping for one.
11
00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,400
Do you grow weary of praying
12
00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,000
when you don't see what you want to happen?
13
00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,960
Do you think the answers you ask for will never come?
14
00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,640
Do you feel like you have no idea how to pray effectively?
15
00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:52,360
I have felt all those emotions on many occasions,
16
00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,160
even right after the Worldwide Prodigal Prayer Day.
17
00:00:56,160 --> 00:01:00,000
Now you can be sure that many people prayed
18
00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,960
and your loved one's name
19
00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,080
was brought before the Lord many times.
20
00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:09,560
And God heard, he knows that person.
21
00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,520
He knows your heart.
22
00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,840
And so the prayer,
23
00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,640
the most effective thing we can do, happened.
24
00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,320
It's an incredible privilege to pray for each other.
25
00:01:22,320 --> 00:01:25,240
But it's also a battle.
26
00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:30,240
I am always exhausted at the end of June 2nd,
27
00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,680
because the evil one doesn't like
28
00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:37,200
that we are praying for these that he thinks belong to him.
29
00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:41,320
We and those we pray for have an enemy
30
00:01:41,320 --> 00:01:45,720
who doesn't like that we are on our knees on their behalf.
31
00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,280
So what do we do now that we have prayed?
32
00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:51,840
First, we wait.
33
00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,480
Just what you wanted to hear.
34
00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:59,480
We wait to see what God is doing.
35
00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:04,480
Sometime we see immediate total answers.
36
00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,480
Other times we await the unfolding change.
37
00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,840
Sometimes there are little glimpses
38
00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,880
of his responding to our prayers.
39
00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,480
Some of us will rejoice when we see this happen.
40
00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,440
Some of us will rejoice when we see
41
00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,680
this amazing transformation.
42
00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:28,680
But mostly we get to wait, which means we trust.
43
00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:35,080
We trust that God has heard and is answering our prayer.
44
00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,240
We have great assurance from his word
45
00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,880
that he desires for our prodigals
46
00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,080
to return to him and to us.
47
00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,200
So take comfort in these verses.
48
00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,960
1 John, it says, this is the confidence we have
49
00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,320
in approaching God, that if we ask anything
50
00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,440
according to his will, he hears us.
51
00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:01,480
And if we know that he hears us, whatever we ask,
52
00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,080
we know that we have what we asked of him.
53
00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:10,440
He tells us that, that it is his will that they not perish.
54
00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,520
He wants them to come home.
55
00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,640
In Luke 15, he demonstrates the Father's great love
56
00:03:16,640 --> 00:03:19,400
and welcoming home of a prodigal.
57
00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,000
And that's what he's doing.
58
00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,600
It's just that we don't understand his timing
59
00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,040
and his ways of making it happen.
60
00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,800
But the best thing we can do next is thank him.
61
00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,920
And I know that's a hard thing to say.
62
00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,000
It's hard to think of saying thank you, Lord,
63
00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,320
when you're in pain and confusion and doubt
64
00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:46,080
and you're not seeing the prayers answered.
65
00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:50,000
But if we thank him, we're recognizing that he is working
66
00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,600
even when we don't see it.
67
00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:57,600
We are admonished, encouraged to give thanks in all things,
68
00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:03,000
even when we don't observe what we hope for.
69
00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:07,640
We must remember that we look through a dark glass,
70
00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:12,280
Paul says in Romans, but God is always working
71
00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:16,360
even when we can't discern what he is doing.
72
00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,560
We wait, we trust.
73
00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,040
Out of the trust, we can say thank you.
74
00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,880
And we give love and grace
75
00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:30,160
as the hands and feet of our Savior to our love prodigals.
76
00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,720
And if they keep hurting us and doing destructive things
77
00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,800
or totally separating from us,
78
00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:40,400
it's hard to think of showing love and grace.
79
00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,360
And yet that's what God calls us to do.
80
00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,480
He will woo them back with his loving kindness,
81
00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,280
he says in Romans.
82
00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:52,720
We are his primary means of extending that love
83
00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:57,720
and grace and kindness that will eventually draw them back
84
00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,600
to God and to us.
85
00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:05,600
We can keep hoping because we have a strong anchor
86
00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,920
to hold our hope, Jesus himself.
87
00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:13,920
We remember that God's promises are all yes in Christ.
88
00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,520
So we have confidence to keep on hoping
89
00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,360
as we ask in the name of Jesus.
90
00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,160
And we keep on praying with hope,
91
00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,280
with perseverance, with assurance.
92
00:05:30,280 --> 00:05:33,600
A day set aside to pray for prodigals is wonderful,
93
00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:38,600
engaging us and our God for release of his grace and power.
94
00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,640
But we still need to keep praying.
95
00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:46,640
We are invited to keep on asking, seeking and knocking.
96
00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,440
Don't quit, keep praying.
97
00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:54,120
Yes, the waiting is hard, but guess what?
98
00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,480
That's when we learn and grow.
99
00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,720
Because you see, it's not all about our prodigals.
100
00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,680
God's also working on us.
101
00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,120
He's very efficient.
102
00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:09,960
Even as he works on them, our hearts open up
103
00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,360
for him to work on us.
104
00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,120
Don't give up because God's doing something in you.
105
00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,240
We hear the scripture that sustained me
106
00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:20,960
through more than 15 years.
107
00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,160
I can't tell you how many times I went back
108
00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:28,160
to this scripture, it's in Isaiah 60, 22,
109
00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,520
just the last line.
110
00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:35,040
And God says, I am the Lord.
111
00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:39,040
And I think he pauses there so that I can recognize,
112
00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,480
and I am not.
113
00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:44,400
He's the Lord, Judy is not, you're not.
114
00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:49,400
Then he says, in its time, I will do this swiftly.
115
00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,320
If you've been listening to this podcast very much,
116
00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,280
you know I've quoted that verse
117
00:06:55,280 --> 00:06:59,160
because it was probably the most significant one.
118
00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,400
Keep praying, keep waiting.
119
00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:07,120
I'm working, but in my time, God says, not in my time.
120
00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,680
I have learned so much in the years of waiting
121
00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,960
of hope born and hope dashed,
122
00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:19,360
of tearful prayers and answered prayers
123
00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,400
and not yet answered prayers,
124
00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,600
and surprises in some of the answers.
125
00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,120
I have gained appreciation for ways
126
00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,440
that we made the journey well.
127
00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,880
And I see how some of our mistakes
128
00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,240
and approaches could have been better.
129
00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:40,240
Here are a few reflections that I have had
130
00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,400
as I've been in the waiting.
131
00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:47,400
I was eager for our son to get restored,
132
00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,360
but we were waiting.
133
00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:53,440
And God was doing these kinds of work in our lives.
134
00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,120
First of all, he enabled us to do some things well.
135
00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,360
Some things like we gave him lots of opportunities
136
00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:05,080
to explore what he liked, enjoyed, and was good at.
137
00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:09,080
We did soccer, he loved surfing, he loved fishing,
138
00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:13,920
he loved paintball, he tried bowling, he did photography.
139
00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,760
Whatever he was willing to try,
140
00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,440
we want him to see some things
141
00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,880
that show what a valuable person he is
142
00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,480
and that he has things to offer.
143
00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,760
That was more in his younger years.
144
00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,160
We allowed him to have several pets.
145
00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:33,240
I like animals, but not as many as he liked.
146
00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:36,840
He had up to three dogs at once, he had a couple of cats,
147
00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,400
he had a couple of iguanas.
148
00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,200
Once was named Al, that was short for alligator,
149
00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,280
it was so big.
150
00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:50,120
He had mice who had babies, and he loved snakes,
151
00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,120
which makes me shudder.
152
00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,560
We'd had some fun family travels,
153
00:08:54,560 --> 00:08:58,000
and he really enjoyed them and probably was happiest
154
00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,160
in his time just with the family.
155
00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,440
When we went to Texas or to Colorado,
156
00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,120
the two main places we would go.
157
00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,520
We introduced him to men that were friends of ours,
158
00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,120
but who chose to invest in his life.
159
00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,080
And they spent time with him, and they prayed for him.
160
00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:22,080
Probably one of the best was the surfing pastor.
161
00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,040
Josh loved to surf, and a friend sent him
162
00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:30,360
all the way to California to spend a week with this pastor
163
00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,400
who taught kids how to surf
164
00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,600
and helped him with church set up.
165
00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,240
It was a wonderful week he came home and said,
166
00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,040
that's the most fun I've ever had.
167
00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,640
And I've reminded him of that occasionally
168
00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,960
when he wanted to do something he thought was fun.
169
00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,480
Another thing that we did well,
170
00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,960
we introduced him to friends of the children of our friends,
171
00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,360
and some of them became his closest buddies.
172
00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,200
We took him to church, youth group,
173
00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:02,800
prayed with him every night,
174
00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:06,000
provided spiritually enriching opportunities.
175
00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,180
Again, this was more in his younger years
176
00:10:09,180 --> 00:10:12,360
when he was growing up and living with us,
177
00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:17,120
and those things didn't happen as much as he was on his own.
178
00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,480
As he made increasingly destructive choices
179
00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:25,400
and seemed out of control and unwilling for us to help him,
180
00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:29,080
we reluctantly put him in a residential program,
181
00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,040
which I've mentioned, and it was a challenge,
182
00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,120
but a very valuable time.
183
00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,520
So those are things we think we did a pretty good job.
184
00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,600
Now here are the things that we think
185
00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,920
were the most important that we did well.
186
00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,380
We kept loving him unconditionally.
187
00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:49,760
Because of abandonment issues with his birth family,
188
00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,520
he didn't believe that we really loved him.
189
00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,520
So we never quit and made every effort
190
00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:59,400
to help him know that we loved him and would not quit.
191
00:11:00,420 --> 00:11:05,240
We had appropriate boundaries for him and for us
192
00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,240
with corresponding consequences,
193
00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:12,800
presented and enforced with a lot of grace,
194
00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,300
and we usually lived by them.
195
00:11:15,300 --> 00:11:19,440
Not perfectly, but we extended grace and mercy
196
00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:24,440
over and over because he needed it.
197
00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,720
And all of us need grace and mercy,
198
00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,120
especially from the people we love.
199
00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,240
And we prayed and prayed and prayed.
200
00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:38,520
Now, in my reflection on what was happening
201
00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,800
in our son's life while I waited
202
00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,280
to see the answers to prayer,
203
00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,720
I did recognize that we made plenty of mistakes.
204
00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:50,520
And just a few of those, because we didn't comprehend
205
00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:55,520
the damage done to him in utero by his birth mom,
206
00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,680
we didn't know how to respond to some of his special needs.
207
00:11:58,680 --> 00:12:02,080
And we had to learn those and adjust to them,
208
00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:03,800
but it took time.
209
00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,600
Because his needs and his choices
210
00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,760
required a lot of attention,
211
00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:12,640
I focused so much of my time on caring for him
212
00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,880
and supervising him and trying to help him
213
00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:19,240
that too often I neglected my other children.
214
00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:23,080
And I deeply regret that I didn't handle that better.
215
00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,280
My husband and I also did not always agree
216
00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,880
on the best approach for him.
217
00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:33,880
And so sometimes we let our son create tension between us.
218
00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,720
We had to learn how to work through that.
219
00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,360
But I want to make sure you understand,
220
00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,360
though there were lots of lessons for us
221
00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:45,720
and we did some things well and not everything well,
222
00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,920
but here's the best part.
223
00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,920
We discovered that our son was an incredible gift
224
00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:53,960
in our lives.
225
00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,960
Some of the ways that he was a gift.
226
00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,420
I learned about mercy and grace in unconditional love
227
00:13:01,420 --> 00:13:06,420
at a far deeper level than I had ever experienced before.
228
00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,560
I learned how to pray, that is really pray.
229
00:13:10,560 --> 00:13:13,080
I'm in a ministry and we pray a lot.
230
00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,080
And so I thought, I know how to pray.
231
00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:21,080
And then I was desperate and I went into a much deeper level
232
00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,820
of beseeching the Lord and praying for our son.
233
00:13:25,820 --> 00:13:28,280
I was thrown into the arms of the Lord
234
00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:32,280
and discovered a wonderful dependence on him
235
00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,760
beyond anything I'd ever known before.
236
00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:38,460
I thought I trusted and depended on God.
237
00:13:38,460 --> 00:13:42,000
But when it came to something I could do nothing about
238
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:46,320
and it was scary, I could only really lean on him.
239
00:13:47,180 --> 00:13:52,040
Despite all the conflict, pain, disappointment, fear,
240
00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,840
heartache, and my relationship with our son,
241
00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:01,540
I still have a treasured relationship with him.
242
00:14:01,540 --> 00:14:03,000
We talk often.
243
00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,680
He shares the things that are hard for him.
244
00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:09,520
He calls and says, please pray for me today.
245
00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,720
God has done a work, but it took a long time.
246
00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:17,760
So I wanna encourage you, don't give up.
247
00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,920
God's gonna answer your prayers.
248
00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,820
It may not look like what you were hoping, but he will.
249
00:14:23,820 --> 00:14:26,360
And he will bring about change,
250
00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,660
but he will bring about change in your life as well.
251
00:14:29,660 --> 00:14:32,960
And that is a wonderful gift.
252
00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,960
Now these are not comprehensive thoughts.
253
00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:39,160
They're just some of the things that God showed me.
254
00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:42,800
I have only recently really been able to breathe
255
00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,080
freely enough concerning our son
256
00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,640
that he's on a good path,
257
00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,660
that I can step back and reflect about it.
258
00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,000
With any prodigal, they come and they do well.
259
00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,680
They go to rehab and they're clean.
260
00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,920
Things look good, and then it's not.
261
00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,840
And so there's this lurking sense,
262
00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,720
well, it's good now, but will it last?
263
00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:12,720
And God just says, hold on, we're doing this together.
264
00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,920
And I wanna close this time with just this beautiful thought.
265
00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,440
I wanna give you a picture
266
00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,320
that'll help you stay on your knees.
267
00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,240
We learn in scripture that your prayers
268
00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:31,240
are a sweet aroma to the Lord now and in eternity.
269
00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,400
Listen to these words from Revelation.
270
00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:40,400
Then I saw a lamb looking as if it had been slain,
271
00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,320
standing at the center of the throne.
272
00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:47,160
He went and took the scroll from the right hand
273
00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,720
of he who was sitting on the throne.
274
00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,400
And when he had taken it, the four living creatures
275
00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:57,640
and 24 elders fell down before the lamb.
276
00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:02,240
Each one had a harp, and they were all holding golden bowls
277
00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:07,240
full of incense, which are the prayers of God's people.
278
00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:13,520
So at the throne, at the time when Jesus does away
279
00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:18,280
with Satan, and we're coming to the end of the world
280
00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,120
as we know it, and a new heaven and a new earth,
281
00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:25,520
and the lamb will reign, and he is being lifted up
282
00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:30,520
by the sweet aroma of our prayers coming up before him.
283
00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:34,520
So even if you've been praying and praying,
284
00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,920
and God calls you home, and you still haven't seen
285
00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,160
the answer that you were looking for,
286
00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,960
your prayers are still working.
287
00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,720
God is still loving that you have brought them to him.
288
00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:51,640
And you may not see the answer, but you can know
289
00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,640
that it's still before the Lord, and it's a sweet aroma
290
00:16:55,640 --> 00:17:00,040
of fragrance that comes to God and reminds him of you
291
00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,840
and your loved one.
292
00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:03,280
Do you see what it's saying?
293
00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,640
Your prayers and my prayers are incense offered
294
00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:08,200
to our savior.
295
00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:12,400
The lamb receives them as a fragrant gift.
296
00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,960
All that you have begged of God for your wonder
297
00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,720
is still working into eternity.
298
00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,120
Don't despair.
299
00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:25,080
Keep our king awash in the perfume of your worship
300
00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:28,160
and surrender and trust in him.
301
00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:33,160
Let the sweet aroma of your entreaties delight him.
302
00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,560
And may you be assured that he hears.
303
00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:41,600
He is responding, and someday you will see
304
00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,080
how he has answered.
305
00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,440
I encourage you to take a few minutes and think,
306
00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,440
all right, what am I taking away from this?
307
00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,680
I've given you actually a lot of content today.
308
00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,240
What can you take from this and apply?
309
00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,120
Especially as we have finished this day of prayer,
310
00:17:58,120 --> 00:18:02,720
that you'll just have eyes and ears and heart and mind open
311
00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:06,520
to see what God is doing and to trust him
312
00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,600
and be able to say thank you, Lord.
313
00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:14,680
Be sure to join us next week as I chat with Dana Russo,
314
00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:19,920
who is a grief counselor who has the nickname,
315
00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,840
the slogan of a companion in grief.
316
00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:27,320
And when you love a prodigal, you know what grief is.
317
00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,760
And she's gonna come alongside us.
318
00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:57,560
God bless you.